Heart-Strong Parenting
by Deborah Shouse
Incorporating love throughout the day keeps a child’s tank full. Consider these tips from love languages expert Gary Chapman.
Physical Touch – Get Close
Greet the child with a hug
Stroke her hair while she talks about a challenging day
Snuggle while watching TV
Affirmations – Encouraging Words
Put a positive note in the child’s lunch box
Appreciate something the child did or said
Create an encouragement jar, with praising words to use as needed
Quality Time – Periods of Undivided Attention
Ask a specific question about their day that elicits discussion
Schedule a date with each child
Create something together, like a photo album
Gifts – Tangible Expressions of Love
Make a special meal or dessert; maybe do it together
Have some small gifts the child can choose from as rewards for positive actions
Seek natural gifts, like a special feather, stone or flower
Acts of Service – Volunteered Assistance
Ask, “How can I help you today?”
Help a child repair a broken toy or resolve a challenge
Do a family service project together